Friday, March 12, 2004, 5:17 PM
Okie..today my whole class undergo BGR workshop..which are soppose to learn the basics of love,steads,marrage,sex, but the whole class noisy ,then very hard for me to listen..looks like i am the one of the few people interested in looking.I'll blog what i learned.
Firstly,alot people would wonder their relationship will last long during ages 13-18?,There is no anwser to this question cause it all depands... whether the girl really like the guy,vis versa...
On the age of 1-6, the mind of the child is selfish,only think about him/her self,at the age of 7-12 ,the mind is loving the person with the same sex,means hanging out with the same sex. Then 13-25 ,the mind will think on opposite sex,more caring of the opposite sex..etc.
Never date ,love, a person that dosen't care about you. You'll be wasting your time with that guy/girl ...and will affects your studies.
About 10% of steads from the same secondary school get married in the end...80% from other schools got married and 10% from other countries...
Here's another thing i wanna show..will be some perverted words..but that's what i learned..
firstly,this is the process of love. 1 being together
2: hold hands
3:quick kiss
4: prolonged kiss
5: touching of body parts
6: sexual intercouse
Infactuation is when a guy/girl thinks that what ever their steads do are correct,for example, the guy/girl are smoking, their stead will think it is correct way to do..this is what is infactuation about,around 50% of the person worldwide are like this.It is actully the worng thing to do..and he/she should tell the person is wrong to do so..or esle may lead to a disaster,like the girl using the guy as a defender and make the guy addicted to smoking too.
FAQ time!
1Q:Why dosen't the girl/boy will not hold hand with you?
A:It's their own will whether to do hold hand or not..and it is not the right time to do it
2Q:Why people want to stead at an early stage?
A:They want to have fun together,experince love,as the girl wants boys to understand,care,protect them and the guy wants the girl to have as much fun as possible.
3Q:It is too early to date?
A:Nope....like i said..it is all depands on the relationship bond between the girl and the guy.
4Q:Why must i date a guy older then me?
A:Because he have more experince of love,more strenght to protect you..but disadvantage is too much experince of love that can cause the girl to be in danger...as the boy may trick the girl by money,sexual disires, needs...etc..
5Q:Oh My God! my parents find out i have a stead,what shall i do?
A:It is all part of growing up..nothing to worry much, your parents may scold you because they still care about you ..and need more family love then other loves...
6Q:Why am i posting all this things?
A: it is for the benifit of people who wants to know about BGR....and passing on the knowleadge to other people,so they could teach others...
LOL..k,this is the end of my...lesson,haha...hope you'll learn something from this,i did..and so will other people.
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Ok..change subject,today i just receive my ca1 test results back..i don't know whether i did well or not..but i must really work hard on my english and maths..chinese gone case..
English:61 Math:79 Science:86 Chinese :17 Geo:80 Litreature:65 D&T:74 ART: 59 ,overrall :65/100 (low hor?)....singkiat got 68/100... roy got...aiya..he everyday hao lian ..say he study everyday,good in all the subjects,in the end all his subject 50+only.... if he puts in efforts in studying but did badly..he is hardworking,but he hao lian all the way..from jan till march. this is what he gets,SERVE HIM RIGHT!..lol